Grant reportedly wanted Cannon to quit her acting career and adhere to his vision of who she should be, including her appearance, behavior, and even her writing.
She recounted the subtle pressures of molding herself to his expectations—closing cupboards more gently, driving with exact precision, adjusting her walk and gestures—only to realize that no amount of effort could reconcile her own identity with the life he demanded.
“If you go against your deepest feelings… you’re screwed,” she admitted candidly.
Their marriage lasted three years, ending in 1968. Cannon later described Grant’s behavior as “cruel and inhuman,” alleging emotional manipulation and that he encouraged her to experiment with LSD, which she used only twice.
Court documents revealed that Grant’s annual income in 1967 was roughly $500,000, with a personal fortune exceeding $10 million—a stark illustration of the power dynamics that complicated their relationship.
Walking Away and Reclaiming Herself
Leaving Grant was not easy. “I couldn’t breathe in that atmosphere anymore,” Cannon confessed. Yet, despite the heartbreak, her love for him remained genuine and selfless:
“I didn’t really want anything from him. I just loved him. There was no agenda there.”
Over time, Cannon came to view her experience with Grant through a lens of gratitude rather than resentment. “There are some happy memories with Cary. I’m grateful for the experience.Continue reading…
