In reality, the school’s selection process did not involve separate titles for male and female students. There was only one winner, and Zachary had the option to choose between the titles of homecoming king or homecoming queen.
“It was based off of popularity at the time and how many votes one specific person could garner regardless of the title,” he explained. “At this point, I think that some people intentionally misunderstand.”
The public scrutiny at times became intense. Zachary recounted that a TikTok video showing the crowning ceremony was removed after numerous reports from users upset by the situation.
More seriously, he shared that he received death threats sent to his home, a harrowing experience that, while difficult, ultimately strengthened his resilience.
“I am definitely so much tougher of a person because of that experience,” he said, emphasizing that confronting public backlash helped him grow both emotionally and personally.
Despite these challenges, Zachary maintains deep pride in his historic achievement. “I definitely thought that it was going to be one of the other guys at my school because he was just so popular,” he said.
“It was really nice. I was excited about it.”
His win has since been celebrated as a symbol of inclusivity and the breaking of traditional gender expectations in school culture, inspiring other students to embrace authenticity without fear of judgment.
Zachary’s reflections also highlight broader societal discussions surrounding gender and representation.Continue reading…
