The idea of living with family was supposed to make things easier, especially with a newborn. You know, the whole “big happy family” fantasy. But as it turns out, it’s not so easy living with in-laws when there are constant, unresolved tensions simmering beneath the surface. The first sign of trouble came with their daily arguments.
The fights always started over the most trivial, almost laughably small things—things that under normal, peaceful circumstances wouldn’t even make a person blink.
But when you’re living with a newborn, every sound, every raised voice, every slammed door feels amplified a hundredfold.
What might be “background noise” to someone else becomes a thunderclap to an exhausted mother.
My mother-in-law, Mrs. Anderson, was completely devoted to her evening soap operas.
No one dared touch the remote when her favorite shows were on. My father-in-law, Mr. Anderson, however, was just as obsessed with his nightly baseball games.Continue reading…