The next morning, he was gone. He didn’t take the baby home or stay for the funeral arrangements. Instead, he left a handwritten note in my daughter’s hospital room, saying he wasn’t cut out for this life and that I would know what to do. That was the last time I saw him. So, my granddaughter was placed into my arms. Suddenly, she became mine, my responsibility, and I became the only parent she had. I named her Lily.

Raising Lily has been anything but easy. Babies are expensive in ways I’d forgotten since my own daughter was small. Every penny disappears before I can even count it. I stretch my pension as far as it will go and take odd jobs when I can—babysitting neighbors’ children or helping at the local church food pantry in exchange for groceries. Most days, it feels like I’m barely keeping my head above water.Continue reading…